Welcome to the forum Ryan, sorry to hear about your condition, but it looks like chancroid to me, although close-up examination and some lab works need to be done to confirm or exclude...Do you have swollen or tender lymph nodes in the groin? Does your partner have pain during micturition? any white or foul smelling discharge from any one? Although sound scary treatment is quite easy and very effective with total cure. Although taking an oral antibiotics might cure the case, it is advisable to visit the doctor and perform other lab tests for sexually transmitted disease and manage both of you accordingly.